026: ari, can we be friends? / stand-up dramedy

Written By nins & arns

Nins decodes several meanings in the song and music video "we can’t be friends (wait for your love)" by Ariana Grande. Arns clings onto the humanity of grief through Alok Vaid Menon's comedy special "Biology!".

referenced in this episode:


0:00 - Intro
5:13 - Nins: "we can't be friends" by Ariana Grande
28:13 - Arns: ALOK's Biology! Comedy Special
45:13 - Outro

summary

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  • (00:00) hi I'm Angela Non I'm Ariana Kempis and this is brb [Music] crying hello everyone welcome back to brb crying I'm Ariana also known as Arns and I'm Angela also known as Nins and this is a little podcast a we pod where we cry our eyes out so that we can Yap your ears off oh I like that one! that was cute that was cute right yeah again out of my ass every single week just trying to reinvent the project description that already took us weeks why not reinvent the wheel you know what I mean like why not make things harder fix what isn't

    (00:59) broken yes you know agreed how are you uh I'm good I'm good um I really want to get my eyebrows done soon okay and so like until they're done I'll just be a little bit Moody you know that makes that's like the one thing I'm like keep that routine up you know keep that upkeep but my brow artiste was on vacation recently so why what the [ __ ] yeah that's it all right you know yeah vibing crying that's it what more could you ask for how about you um I'm good there was actually something that happened to me the other day that I was going to text

    (01:46) you about and I was like oh let me just I'll tell her on the Pod risky cuz you could forget I could forget I yeah you know what the reason why I knew I wasn't going to forget was because I was like should I talk about this on the Pod like as my story and then I was like M no think I can okay so I'm just going to tell really quick right now you're not going to talk about not I mean I'm not going to make it my main story I see so I had this appointment and the person who was helping me asked me about what I do for

    (02:14) work okay and I told her what I do for work and I was like oh yeah and also my other job podcast blah blah blah Spiel featured on Apple oh my God that sounds so cool dude honestly when when I say that people are like wait what that's [ __ ] sick so any yeah duh can you imagine anyway so we started talking cuz she was like oh I I'm a big crier blah blah blah and she was telling me about the last time she cried and I was like I don't know if I should share you know her whole story here it's not like I it's not like she's submitting a

    (02:52) soab story which she could which she could hello at bebc podcast.com submit a form on our website um but yeah the gist of it was that she reunited with a lost Love the One That Got Away and after like 15 years oh my God yeah it was so I was crying when she was telling me about it the point of it was we spend so much of our Lives kind of waiting for these things to happen to us wondering when is it going to happen to me and then we realize these things happen to us when we're at a point in our lives where we

    (03:27) can appreciate them and when we're ready to receive them yeah was beautiful I was crying so yeah it was a beautiful moment where I remembered that the point of all of this is just connecting and even just ROM who know she might not ever listen to the Pod but it was just such a point of connection that I probably normally wouldn't have with a stranger talking about something that intense and something so huge that you know happened to her so yeah it was really nice beautiful yeah it was really cool that's so sweet so like they're getting

    (04:03) married and like yeah no yeah he loves her kids you know oh yeah that's good so yeah I'm uh I'm good yeah great love that love that that's all I got that's your whole thing for today and now it's your turn I did have one more announcement I know that if you've been listening along we've had our giveaway for a beb crying hat for leaving a review and if you want to know if you want that beautiful green beer be crying hat go and check our socials at beb crying.

    (04:40) podcast but yeah thank you so much to everyone who participated we are so so appreciative of everyone who has taken some part in this community whether that's actually just listening to us or letting our messages resonate with you or actually giving us words of affirmation we [  ] love that [  ] need it need it can't live without it cannot so so hats off hats off to you okay all right that's it that's [Music] it so what do you have for me today well earlier you asked if this episode was going to publish during the first week of March mhm and I had to pretend like I

    (05:25) didn't do the girl math to calculate that already mhm because that is exactly what I did I waited to figure out what episode is going to be landing the first week of March ah because exactly one year ago on this very week I cried for I I'm not kidding you I cried for 2 days straight beside myself and that was because Miss Ariana Grande released her music video for the song we can't be friends I never watched it I know you didn't I know you didn't is today the day and I figured you didn't do that because you were probably waiting for me

    (06:11) to cover it on the show maybe subconsciously yeah oo all right do you remember what I was like that weekend I was texting you and Mar constantly and I think I left you a voice note because I was trying to explain through hysterics your voice was yeah yeah I wasn't okay that weekend m- like I was crying so hard I fell asleep that I woke up with like swollen eyes oh my God okay well today is the day that you are going to be watching this music video we are going to dive deep into it okay okay I'm ready so sources for today aside from the video

    (06:53) are a 2024 article by Leah veloso for stylecaster a 2024 article by Jake viswan for Buel and a 2024 interview Ariana Grande did with Zan low for Apple music so normally at this point in my story I'd be like telling you a little bit about the artist which do I need to I don't think you do I don't think I need to let's not waste our time it's Ariana Grande biggest superstar of Our Generation and for those that have been Avid listeners to our pod I've been pretty low-key over the last 25 episodes about how much I [ __ ] love

    (07:37) this [  ] I [  ] love Ariana okay yeah ever since Honeymoon Avenue dropped in 2013 I've [ __ ] been there you know any favorite songs that you would like to shout out right now ooh honestly that entire album positions oh really was that that that was the name of the album right yeah okay it was the album I would run to so I knew exactly how fast I was getting like based on where I ended on her album okay yeah that one's kind of like a dark horse or like it's obviously perfect but at the time people were like no I liked

    (08:13) it no it's [ __ ] great my hair please are you kidding okay so yeah for my story today I'm going to talk about both the music video and the song for we can't be friends this song is written by Ariana Grande Max Martin and Ilia Salman Zeta and it has this very synth pop sound we will dive into that but first the music video as well directed by Christian brez laau and starring Miss Ariana Grande alongside Evan Peters are you familiar with Evan Peters at all I don't think so okay he he was like big on American Horror Story he's

    (09:01) great we love him so the concept of the music video is heavily inspired by the 2004 movie Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind starring Jim Carrey and Kate Winslet incredible I could do a whole and this is why I didn't watch the music video because I've never watched that movie okay and I was like it was one of those things where I was like oh but I have to watch the movie and then I have to watch it you just got to listen to your best friend talk about it for 40 minutes cool so without further Ado it is time that ARS finally watches this

    (09:36) music video and then we will get [  ] into this dang we are starting it off with the video okay dude I'm making my tissues ready well we didn't need contacts you [  ] know I [  ] know everyone [  ] knows everyone [ __ ] knows I'm gonna need a couple of minutes that's F I had 48 Hours where I was like this I can't breath I can't breath oh my God I should have watched it before because this is too much do you understand like why I literally for 2 days straight I was just like this I was just like that okay okay

    (10:38) okay okay you guys it's been 30 minutes we had to collect ourselves any immediate thoughts anything that you want to I can't speak right now please just talk okay well you're not going to like what I'm going to say so all right just played Arn the music video it [ __ ] Cuts You Like a Knife so music video opens up with Ariana Grande sitting in a waiting room of what looks like some sort of doctor's office and she's filling out these consent forms which reads you have given extensive thought behind your decision and give brighter

    (11:27) days Inc the exclusive permission to remove this person completely from your memory so Ariana reads this and checks the yes box and signs it her name in the music video is Peaches which I think is a nod to Kate Winslet's character in the movie Eternal Sunshine she's named Clementine in the movie so anyway Ariana Grande is called and brought into this doctor's room and she brings this box of items with her and she gets seated in this chair and the staff begin connecting her to all this medical equipment monitors wires

    (12:12) and scans of her brain are scattered throughout the room and you see nurses sorting through the stuff in the box that Ariana brought in I'm calling her Ariana because we are first name basis friends yeah so this machine that she's tied to is scanning her brain and looking for every single memory that she has of someone and is removing that memory or distorting it in her mind so that it's like this person never even existed and while she goes through this procedure she is forced to relive the Memories One More Time before they're

    (13:00) completely erased forever so the music video jumps from scenes of her in the doctor's office to flashbacks of her and her ex partner enter Evan Peters so there's this memory of their date in some sort of arcade and he wins her this cute little teddy bear and that was one of the things in the box that she brought in and then you watch as this entire memory Fades to Black in her mind and at the end of the music video the teddy bear gets destroyed you get more flashbacks of their relationship one of them fighting

    (13:48) and him giving her silent treatment but a lot of these other memories are just really intimate and beautiful scenes of them being happy cuddling in bed or making snow angels both nods again to the original movie She and Him recreating the birthday cake scene in 16 Candles they're just all these moments that seem so beautiful and happy but they're all slipping away from her you can deduce that the whole reason she's undergoing this procedure is because this relationship has come to an end and instead of bearing the pain of a

    (14:41) breakup it seemed like an easier option to just forget it existed at all but halfway through the procedure as she's reliving all of these memories of them together she realizes that she doesn't want to forget and there's a scene where she fights the procedure and she wakes up and she grabs at her necklace and she's pleading with the staff and saying through tears please can I keep this one and that's the part that [ __ ] kills me every time but of course the staff's like no we have to get them all otherwise it's

    (15:37) not going to work so she relives this memory one last time and it's of her and Evan sitting on the couch and he gives her this necklace and you watch as the memory is then altered the necklace turns into a dog Coller and Evan turns into this big labal dog and the moment in her mind is changed forever the music video ends with Ariana successfully finishing the procedure no more memories of Evan Peters and the last scene is of her and Evan walking past one another both of them are with different partners now and they're strangers again to one

    (16:38) another I don't think I need to overe explain the meaning behind this music video very simply put sometimes relationships come to an end and while the Heartbreak can be so unbearably painful it's even worse to erase that pain at the expense of also erasing its joy we can't fully appreciate one without the other I'm in a transition to diving deeper into the song itself but please now that you've maybe had some time with it is there anything like you said I don't know if there's much else to say uh was that really awful quote it's better to have

    (17:37) love and lost than to have never loved at all like like that's it yeah that's it I like laugh at myself now because a year ago again where I was crying that entire weekend I just kept [  ] replaying it like babe just turn it off just Gott okay again you know but you know because I was so distracted by the plot of this music video I didn't really listen to the song just by itself and obviously the music video on the surface is very clearly about a romantic relationship but it wasn't until I had calmed the [  ]

    (18:30) down and really looked at the lyrics and the context of Ariana Grande's life especially at the time that I realized that the song could be about a different type of relationship we all know who the [ __ ] Ariana Grande is and whether or not you want to you probably know at least a little bit about her personal life again she's been famous since she was 15 years old more than half of our Lives she's been a star we have been reading and hearing about her for 17 years and when you take in the idea of Ariana Grande as

    (19:12) a globally recognized celebrity you also have to recognize the scrutiny that comes with that level of Fame and this is a truth that is reiterated over and over again to us that Fame isn't everything it too has its own set of pleasures and miseries I know I stated in the beginning of the story that I I Adore Ariana gande I am a hardcore Stan but I am fully aware that I am a hardcore Stan of the idea I have of her in my head of the carefully curated image that she and her team put out there for us to consume I know that I

    (20:06) don't know her personally and even though wait what I mean I could and even though I'm a fan I'm not going to consider her infallible from her mistakes but I'm also not here to speak about my opinions on her personal life or dissect all the stories and rumors about her because I don't [  ] know I don't really know anything like we could talk about it and you still won't know I yeah and also that's not the point of what we do he on this couch I'm only here to talk about [  ] that made me cry and this was [ __ ] one of

    (20:43) them so so in the song it seems like Ariana Grande is singing not about a romantic relationship but about her relationship with Fame and the press and all these people around the world who think that they know her we can't be friends but I'd like to just pretend you cling to your papers and pens wait until you like me again wait for your love love I'll wait for your love when you dwell on these lines it's it's so painful to me to hear this Proclamation from Ariana in the song that she can't be fully friends with

    (21:43) Fame because it always comes back to bite her but she can pretend like it's giving her everything that she's ever wanted that it's all genuine happiness and in those moments when it's anything but she just has to wait until it's good again and I know for a lot of us it's really hard to empathize with someone who is Rich and Famous and beautiful and a global star who seems like she's out of touch with real people she's not real to us and even as I try to understand the feelings Ariana is expressing in the song I'm not going to pretend that I

    (22:39) will ever know what it feels like to be her living through the highs and lows of Fame and the everchanging opinions of the masses I have no [ __ ] clue what that is like nor do I want to scary but I know what it's like to want so desperately to be loved to be accepted to chase approval and affirmation to feel understood I think we can all relate to that at least I think that's what everybody wants no matter who you are and in our more reflective States we may look back and wonder why we ever sought this approval in the first place

    (23:41) because we can get hurt when we seek that validation from the wrong things or the wrong people and for me I was trying to think about some of these really inconsistent relationships in my life and I was like it's the one that I have with myself when I'm in those moments of such deep self-loathing and it feels so unbearable I just beg and plead to fast forward to the moments when I like myself again usually it's after my period but all this to say to love and be loved in this world is a NeverEnding Journey with all the highs and lows

    (24:44) scattered all throughout I hope if given the option we choose to remember every second of it you [  ] got me dude I knew I would I was like dude she's a virgin to this music video watch out [  ] you could have warned me that was so intense I couldn't breathe I was gasping for air and what you're saying at the end like this never ending cycle of chasing your own approval like when you finally get there it's kind of like what you were saying with the music video like you can't appreciate one without the other like you can't know how much you needed

    (25:43) yourself there [ __ ] layers to it dude I can't my brain is like it's just a little too much no I know yeah it took me like a year to formulate and then here you are making me respond to this you gave me half an hour what you think exactly no I know there's just so much to there's so much to take in and that interview that Ariana grny did with Zan for Apple music she talks about how every time she had kind of introduced the song to a friend or family they had all these different interpretations I mean it's it's

    (26:29) messages that are applicable to so many things to love in all its forms yeah so for her it could be Fame for us it's just wanting to feel accepted I just had a vision one day we're doing a live show in front of an audience and then you know we hit each other with one of these and then we're just gasping for air for half an hour in front of like real people and then I'm sitting here just in my thoughts for about five minutes and people are like this is very different from the podcast okay listeners you don't understand when nin does when she edits

    (27:16) so beautifully these these episodes she's cutting out a lot of just me being like like head in my hands like [  ] staring to the ceiling like what the [  ] no I know I get it this one's [  ] heavy it slaps you in the [  ] face yeah whoa would you ever watch it again or are you like scarred for life I think you should watch it in your in in your you think I should sit there and watch it again over and over again like what you did a year ago yeah desensitize yourself clearly that didn't work for you because you were still crying

    (27:54) watching I mean I was crying because I was like feeling you live it for the first time you know just like oh man this must really suck for her is that empathy [Music] damn okay we good we're good so today you may have noticed I'm wearing my favorite earrings mhm for those of you listening not watching I'm wearing these recycled brass earrings from this Filipina American brand it's called marari I don't know if I've ever told you about these earrings so the shape of the earrings is a circle but instead of connecting at

    (28:39) the bottom the two edges of the circle Point upward and inward okay so in the Philippines the symbol is called Ling Ling o and according to the marari website on the product description this ancestral amulet represents the perfect union of feminine and masculine energy M I think quite literally it's like a uterus and a penis oh yeah can I see yeah Watchers listeners okay yeah but anyway by balancing these energies we have the power to create and bring forth life so the lingling O is just one of many examples of indigenous pre-colonial

    (29:24) cultures kind of transcending the gender binary because by holding this feminine energy and this masculine energy and everything in between it becomes this symbol of interconnectedness M so today I wanted to talk about someone who I think encapsulates the same wisdom and power and creativity and Transcendence and that is none other than Alo fade Manan okay do you know who they are maybe not okay all right well I'm about to you're about to [ __ ] find out okay so Alo is a performance artist a poet comedian author activist actor

    (30:04) Fashion Icon and so much more they are gender non-conforming and trans feminine and they use they them pronouns they're well-renowned in the trans and non-binary movement 1.5 million followers on Instagram very casually famous and this sounds kind of ridiculous to say but there's is so [ __ ] smart the vibe this is what I wrote the vibe is speech and debate super super sharp like will cut down every counterargument like you don't even want to get into it but they're also so funny and witty and sarcastic and wise like let me sit here in awe

    (30:46) while you destroy me yes yes yes okay so they are really just this source of light and compassion and a model for what it means to unapologetically be yourself even when the world tries to erase you and you don't fit into this neat little box and right now they're actually doing a world tour for their new standup show get your tickets I'll link it in the show notes okay so some brief CA context about Alo my sources for today are an interview on road book by Mosen Zade published in May 2024 titled Alo on cage

    (31:28) comedy and exploring beyond the gender binary and then there's also Al's own website which is Alo von.com there's an interview on AAR magazine an interview with Alo vade Manan on identity queerness and travel and then there is also a glad. org article that is titled the Lo talks trans joy and the observ of societal hatred in a new comedy special and then there is the comedy special itself which is called biology and it was released in January 2025 so Alo grew up in an Indian American household in Texas so they

    (32:12) hailed from a really really conservative area of course constant Target of bullying and harassment and so they turned to Art and poetry as this outlet and it just kind of Saved their life art tends to do that yeah yeah and when asked about first getting into comedy Alo said that they started performing poetry on stage but realized quote doing hard-hitting poems about grief and Trauma one after the other was kind of a buzz kill so then they started adding in comedy and they just fell in love with it because of the way it so

    (32:47) intentionally creates this space of joy and another thing about Alo that is so [  ] incredible is how they respond so eloquently to hate comments cuz you you can imagine so many I mean it's just just constant a barrage one example of a hate comment was be yourself no problem with that really but I find this disgusting Sorry God yeah obviously like [  ] like [  ] [  ] you right which is what like I think most of us would say oh yeah precisely this is a L's reply I'm sorry right back at you I'm going to cry

    (33:25) sorry you have such a narrow world view I can it's hurting you it must be exhausting to feel as if your worth comes from winnowing yourself down to other people's opinions of who you should be shame is interrupted joy and I believe you are worth Joy I know that might feel impossible right now but I believe in miracles because I am one and so are you I am rooting for you meaning I am rooting my feet on this Earth With Arms Wide Open here to welcome you when you're ready to come home oh reply [ __ ] off you know yeah no exactly

    (34:05) exactly but my God yeah yeah and to be trans and non-binary and brown and also such a public figure it's such a vulnerable place to be you're so susceptible to this hate and harassment and violence yeah and being yourself is just so courageous in a way that CIS hetero People Like Us just we'll never we'll never have to experience it but to be compassionate like that in the face of hate is honestly it's astounding their self-love and healing is so unshakable sorry I'm like already connecting our two stories I know I know

    (34:45) it's too much it's too much yeah it's so unshakable that it penetrates even like the darkest corners of the world all right so now we're going to just get into it so I want to talk about Al's most recent comedy special which is called biology I follow Alo on Instagram so I'd seen Snippets and they were so good and so smart and I was just kind of waiting for a spare hour you know hour 20 to watch this and I finally did I was so excited and the thing is it's called a comedy special but much like our pod comedy

    (35:20) is you know it's you got to dig deep in there you got to dig deep and Alo even prefaces this at the beginning of the show they say that they're going to transition between comedy and poetry but they won't give a heads up because that's kind of what life is like and I was like okay sure sure sure sure sure sure mistake so I'm going to play you it's about a 10minute clip listeners if you want to follow along I'm starting from the 22 and 1/2 minute mark up until like 31 and 1/2 minutes that would be my biggest fear to be the

    (36:02) one in the audience laughing as they transition to yeah something serious I know I'd be like oh [  ] I will leave I'll excuse myself yeah it was it's so jarring yeah okay so I played it for nins and this segment well I started with Theo is joking about how oh did you know white people can make art and their artist drawing borders between countries so [  ] smart again God I love their Vibe oh my God the outfit oh my god dude every outfit is oh my God incredible so anyway it very suddenly transitions to Alo talking about their grandfather

    (36:45) dying and what that experience was like for them and it is a whirlwind of a tribute I feel like in their poem you experience just all these emotions and I think poet is really the the word that stand I mean yeah it has almost like a like a spoken word Vibe M it's so good but I have like two quotes that stuck with me and the thing is it's happening so quickly that it's like you're just trying to process what they were just saying and then they're moving on to wait can you pause so uh one of the quotes was sometimes truth is a

    (37:23) prescription with too many side effects so we lie to the people we love we cradled them in our perjury beam promises like those devices that project stars on the ceiling like these are real the Galaxy is yours I will make the universe Bend for you everything you want is yours and then another quote I was mad that no one had ever told me that this is what a peaceful death looks like that no one had ever told me that dying is the longest verb is a material that stretches and stretches until it's suddenly snaps back into your face like

    (37:59) a yo-yo trick gone wrong there are so many other Co I mean if I could I would just read the whole thing but again we were warned that the special was going to play out like this but I paid no heed and I think when I first watched this that's why I was crying so hard because I really I mean it had been like up until this 22 minute Mark just jokes and so when this happened that was the this and I was like oh [ __ ] and I was like like I I also couldn't breathe like it was it was just so much at once and it was such a

    (38:36) pivot and one moment you're in the thick of this bit and you're like laughing at how [ __ ] up our world is and then suddenly you're plunged into the depths of grief and I think that it's just this incredible reminder that the injustices that marginalized people face they're all cerebral you know they're in our heads like all the suffering stems from constructs that are created by people whose hearts are full of fear and you know within all of us even those people whose hearts are full of fear is the feeling that Alo

    (39:18) evokes through this segment this humanness that transcends labels and categories and binaries because all of us know pain and loss and grief there's just no room for bigotry when we're United by the universality of our feelings and yet you know our reality is that we live in this world full of constructs and dehumanization and eraser and in the thick of Al's grief they must also somehow bear witness to their grandfather's pain and Trauma in order to make sense of their grandfather's time here on Earth it's heavy but when we remember someone we

    (40:13) have to hold their pain and they're suffering because it shaped them I mean it's kind of like what you were talking about in your segment those moments even when they feel like you've hit rock bottom like that is that is part of you that is part of your story and so as we kind of straddle these two worlds you know one is full of these constructs and failed leadership and people refusing to acknowledge their own neighbors humanity and then this other world where we're all just human we're all just feeling the same

    (40:48) feelings I think that maybe all we can do is exactly what Alo does in this special fight these oppressive systems while trying to stay grounded in the humanness that unites us all and just keep showing up in ways that feel true to us you know make art that moves people and love hard seek healing choose joy and honestly like do it all while wearing some really [ __ ] like rad outfits that last paragraph you could literally replace Alo with Ariana Grande it would be the same exact paragraph yeah no I love that I loved

    (41:37) all of that yeah Ariana Grande's Fame is a social construct mhm the oppression is a construct mhm and underneath all of that is just [ __ ] Being Human yeah like what if we all remembered that we all feel this way it's funny because I wrote this whole thing and then of course I come across this quote from an article on glad and Alo says biology which is the name of the special is in constant motion and so is life the point that I'm making in the show is that the real biology that's being erased isn't gender it's the fact

    (42:18) that we die and when we remember that then all of this time that's spent wasted hating other people becomes seen as the true comp so it's kind of a meta commentary on how from the perspective of death most of living is just standup comedy because so many people are just wasting their precious time on Earth investing in hatred but yeah if we can just if we could just remember and tap into like what's in here you know I think we just have to celebrate again those artists like Alo who can share their beautiful mind with the

    (43:02) world sorry dying is the longest verb what the [ __ ] when I heard that I was like what like where do do they know like how dumb I am all the time they must because they were like I need to tell this girl you know yeah yeah wow yeah i' had never heard of them before yeah and that's the thing all the Snippets of the special were funny they're coming to I think SF in June so I'm like should I get tickets should I get tickets or am I just going to sit there like just being dumb like you know like laughing at all

    (43:39) the wrong yeah like I'm I'm just like I'm really dumb and thank God for people like Al yeah yeah yeah like that's someone who's like oh that's a [ __ ] light in this world mhm yep yep there was a line in that monologue where I don't have the exact verbage but it was something about how when you love someone I yeah you have to love all of them and then you have to miss all of them mhm and I was like yeah I know when I when I came across that line again when we were watching I was like oh I should have written that one down because that was

    (44:15) exactly wait a second yeah it's rough out here it's [  ] rough for two dumb [  ] yeah who constantly get humbled every day yeah but you know what I hope that you all dear listeners I well one I hope you're smarter than us but I I hope that if you're as dumb as us like this pod helps you kind of grasp the world a little bit more cuz I feel like it does for me oh yeah no every day just sit here humbled as [  ] like wow I don't know [  ] look at all these people that have to keep repeatedly telling me yeah

    (44:55) yeah yeah there's just so much to learn from everyone one's humanness isn't it beautiful to to realize how much you have left to learn and how you will never stop learning mhm we're academics here the dumbest academics the dumbest should we Rebrand all right cool well thank you everyone for tuning in again it's been fun has it you had a fun today I mean you call that fun painful painful with a couple laughs sprinkled in but truly we always appreciate you listening and lending us your ears for an hour so if you feel so

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